Danny Dyer has openly reflected on the turbulent periods in his long-standing relationship with his wife, Joanne Mas, acknowledging that she was justified in asking him to leave their home during his years of personal turmoil. In a candid interview on Elizabeth Day’s *How to Fail* podcast, the former *EastEnders* star admitted to “losing control for many years” and described himself as a “jerk,” expressing deep remorse for the pain he caused Joanne during their 33-year relationship citeturn0search1. Dyer and Mas, who began dating as teenagers, have navigated a complex relationship marked by public scandals and personal challenges. In 2000, following a cheating incident, Joanne changed her phone number, emptied her bank account, and restricted Dyer’s access to their eldest daughter, Dani. Dyer later admitted, “I didn’t blame her,” recognizing the consequences of his actions citeturn0search1. The couple’s relationship faced further strain in 2008 when Dyer embarked on a three-day partying spree with singer Lily Allen and socialite Jodie Harsh. Joanne, unable to contact him during this period, was reportedly furious and asked him to leave their home. Dyer temporarily moved in with his mother in East London citeturn0search0. In 2017, after Joanne discovered text messages from a group of friends she considered a negative influence, she once again asked Dyer to move out. He spent time living in a hotel, missing Father’s Day with his family during this period citeturn0search2. Dyer has since taken significant steps to address his personal issues. He checked into a psychiatric unit in South Africa, seeking help for his struggles with fame, substance abuse, and mental health. Reflecting on this period, he described himself as a “lost soul” and emphasized the importance of therapy in his journey towards self-improvement citeturn0search4. In 2016, Dyer and Mas married, solidifying their commitment to each other. Today, Dyer credits Joanne with keeping him grounded and supporting him through his darkest times. He acknowledges the challenges they’ve faced and expresses deep gratitude for her unwavering support, stating, “She’s kept me grounded. I’m telling you that now” citeturn0search1. Their story serves as a testament to resilience, personal growth, and the enduring power of love and forgiveness in the face of adversity.